I Despise Having my Time Wasted and Losing Money, doesn't everyone?
- shy s

- Jun 6
- 3 min read
So, I thought I would take the time to just vent. As many of you know, I recently hosted an event in Lake Forest and had such a great response as far as RSVP's and interested clicks. I was looking forward to having a much larger turnout than what I did. Typically when people RSVP to an event, for those who are unaware, when you see the RSVP amount cut that in half (referring to the going list not interested) then minus a few more of those RSVP's of I am going, and that is typically the REAL number of those who will actually attend. I get it, things happen and people go on with their lives. What I have a problem with is the simple fact that I see this more and more frequently with others as well, who host. It isn't the normal scenario for me; however, it does happen.
What IS bothersome is the lack of awareness that some of those who click 'RSVP going' have. When you don't show, it possibly detours others for not wanting to come because they think it is going to be a jam-packed room and they probably won't have the greatest time or get that much action. IF that has ever crossed anyone's mind, please know undoubtedly, that I will never allow you to leave feeling 'short changed' or not having a great time. My goal is always to allow every man the chance to cum at least once. I am pretty damn successful at accomplishing that goal. Rare instances has that not occurred, thankfully. I pride myself in this.
The next thing I don't believe most take into consideration, I will book the room based on the guesstimate number of attendees that will be attending my events. Average room can vary from $100 to $220. Imagine if you have in attendance only 4 men arrive. The cost of the room, gas, possibly breaking off the person whose helping with the door while allowing me to focus on all the cocks around me and pleasing them, THEN you have to factor the possibility of child care expenses for me to be present for that event or any monies for that matter given so that my kid can be taken care of while I am away.
The next thing I will address for those who are NOT new to my page or my events and have been following me for a long time and/or has been to past events........ When an individual makes a claim against another person that is pretty shocking or the purpose is to portray someone in a negative light....... consider a few things: who is the source and do they know that person and in what capacity? Is it an ex, a fan, etc., ? THEN consider if that person would gain in any capacity from making such a statement? THEN ask yourself if they gave you proof and/or if they provided context to whatever claim is being made about another person or persons. It is so incredibly disappointing to receive a few messages from like a couple or maybe three people who fill me in/give me a heads up on things said about me, when really it should be more reaching out to me. Ya'll are so easily fooled and quick to from opinions without actually thinking certain things through. To each their own but honestly, I don't want the vibes of those types at my events. That will probably make a ton of you mad and maybe I never see you again at my events, that's fine. I am all about authenticity and being honest with who I am even if it upsets people. Even if I lose some fans. I want to add positivity in others' lives and I expect the same from those around me. Remember this..... the truth always comes out and most false statements about others, can easily be proven/disproven. Until next time........

I love (being sarcastic) how no one left any comments or thoughts. I would genuinely like to receive feedback.