An idea

So I have an idea regarding the RSVP'ing for my events. First of all, if anyone could be so kind and generous of their time to explain to me the point of putting in an RSVP for an event, then never showing. I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would want to take the time to RSVP and then not show. I get it sometimes shit happens and things do not work out as planned. Fine. I can accept that truth. However, aside from that possibility, why?

I once had a fan and attendee tell me the reason it took so long to actually come to one of my events was because of always seeing the number of attendees that may show up and the large number he would see, would scare him. Until one day, he built up the strength to go for it and that was when he too didn't understand the point of someone taking the time to RSVP only to not show.

So....... in saying all of this, please don't RSVP if you aren't in the slightest going to show up. Now comes the fun part....... my idea.........

My idea is that for those who RSVP and don't show up, I will just black list from attending future events. That simple...... then maybe they will learn mindfulness.