Navigating the Life of a Fetlifer and Content Creator in the OC Gang Bang Scene

One of the hardest and most difficult responsibilities about what I do from day to day is feeling as if I fail miserably at what I am most passionate about... creating sexual exploration, sexual freedom, new experiences, pushing boundaries, meeting my fans, hosting my gang bang events, interacting with my fans, and scheduling meet-ups. Not to mention juggling all my social media accounts on my own, responding to my fans, possible collaborators, business opportunities, managing all of this and yet... somehow I am also expected to respond and remember everything that was discussed or post-dated to a T. As if that wasn't already enough to manage in a single day... I then have my 'normal' mom life. My kids, my personal life is my priority. Not to sound selfish or rude, however, those who don't have kids and maybe even those who do, I don't think understand the fact that I'm a true single mother. I don't have the luxury of a babysitter or family. It is 100% on me, everything. So... for those of you who don't understand how I could dare suggest for one to tip me for my time and my energy given, whether it is messaging you or calling you, or meeting for an appointment, or enjoying my posts and not even saying thank you for sharing my kinky and slutty side... is rather comical to me. If you were a badass consultant for a company or a therapist, or an actor/actress, would you not ask/require compensation before even flinching? I mean, at the very least subscribe to my OF for a measly $12.99 a month and see if I don't respond a little faster. See if things aren't more to your advantage...

Here and there I receive messages from people saying, "Oh, I thought you liked what you did... I didn't realize you didn't and wanted to make money from it." Just be clear on one thing... just because one is compensated for their time and energy doesn't mean they don't enjoy it. Just because someone enjoys something immensely doesn't mean they shouldn't be compensated.

My intention for writing this is to open your eyes to see and think about things that possibly you hadn't thought of until now. To have you understand the amount of time and effort that I put into attempting to please those who follow me. I strive to please and will continue to do so; however, there is a line to be had, and hopefully, it never gets crossed into disrespect. If that happens, I will cut you off, whether it's temporary or permanently. I would hope that you all would do the same for yourself in your personal life as well, even in the kink world, come to think of it.